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Case Studies (Kali Shivakote)

May 27, 2022 /0 Comments/in /by

CASE STUDIES

Tales of Sorrow: The World of Persons living with HIV/AIDS.
Kali Shivakote (name changed) age 28 years from Kamane
Tales of Sorrow: The World of Persons living with HIV/AIDS.
Kali Shivakote (name changed) age 28 years from Kamane
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I studied until class 9 and thereafter I discontinued my studies. My husband was a truck driver in Nepal. As a truck driver my husband used to go on long journeys to drive the truck to different parts of the country. Over a period of time he became alcoholic. I am the second wife of my husband. His first wife has left him and her whereabouts are not known. My husband has two sons from the first wife. I had one son and two daughters who are studying and staying in my mother’s house.

I stay with my Nanad (husband’s sister) in Simra , a small town on the border of India. My husband got sick and the sickness prolonged for nearly two years. He could not be healed in -spite of continuous treatment. His health became a cause of concern to me as he became very thin. At one stage due to sickness he could not recognize family members and his legs got paralyzed. He could not go to toilet and I looked after him.  The fact was that my husband knew the reason of his sickness which he did not disclose to me. Ultimately, I took my husband to Kalimati hospital. After knowing the profession and history of prolonged sickness of my husband the doctors suspected the killer disease HIV/AIDS. I never knew anything about this disease and enquired about this disease from the doctor. I asked the doctor to get my husband tested for HIV but my husband was not interested to undergo this test. On my insisting, the blood was drawn and test was done. The cost of the test was Rs.600/- and I had only Rs.500/- with me. They agreed to do the test for the amount I could afford to give.

 

I was asked by the doctor to come on a specific date to take the report of the test. They were not ready to directly tell me the results. I insisted and asked if it was HIV/AIDS which they confirmed. After hearing this I was shocked, I trembled and fell down unconscious. After some time I regained consciousness and the doctor and nurses helped me to face the reality. I felt like committing suicide. Totally shaken and bewildered, I came back home. My husband who was skin and bones, and seriously ill, asked me about the report of the test. I refused to disclose the report and told my husband that the doctor has asked you to come again on some other day.

 

My relatives were taunting me. I decided to take my husband to the village. By then I did not get my blood tested. I was advised to get my blood tested and to my surprise I was also infected by the disease. I thought I will go mad; I lost the desire to live. Some people took me to a place where there were women living with HIV/AIDS. That exposure made me realize that I am not the only one hit by the trauma of disease, but there are others who are living in similar circumstances. I realized I am not alone and that gave me hope to live. I was brought back to the main stream of life again. To earn my livelihood I started stitching clothes and got work in a temple. I am getting ARV drugs free of cost which is a great help.

In all these struggles of life I am not able to forget one person Rita Khadka whom I call “Didi” elder sister. In the past I worked in her tailoring shop. She has stood by me in all these struggles and supported me with money and encouragement. Her frequent phone calls give me encouragement and hope.

In the past I had no desire to live but now others including ETSCN has given me courage to live. Their staff periodically meets me and counsels me. To maintain good health I am given monthly nutrition supplement. For enhancing my income ETSCN gave me sewing machine which is a good tool for me to earn. I have also attended their training on entrepreneurship development. To participate in the work of ETSCN I work as a volunteer which satisfies me.






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Case studies (MUNNi)

May 27, 2022 /0 Comments/in /by

CASe STUDIES

human trafficking

Munni (name changed) – victim of human trafficking, age 30 years from Chisapani

At present I live in Chesapani Hetauda and my husband is a painter. I was very small when my father left me with my paternal aunt. My aunt hatched a conspiracy and sold me to the broker when I was merely 14 years old. The person who carried me away said to me that he is taking me to my mother. That is how I landed in a city called Mumbai in India. I stayed in India for nearly ten years and was also taken to Pune and Gujarat.

In the brothel, life in the beginning is tough and new comers are not trusted by the owner of brothel called “Gharwali”. In fact Gharwali does not stay in the brothel but stays in good locality and leads a respectful life with husband and children. The Gharwali often visits the brothel called Kotha to collect the money. In the brothel around 40 to 50 girls in the age group of 12 to 40 years stay in the dormitory. They are not allowed to have close relationships with each other as friends. The “Didi” lady manager of the brothel always keeps a watch on the girls. The gate keeper of the brothel   is called “Mausa” or uncle.

The client pays for services according to their preferences. Payments range from Rs.150/- to Rs.600/- for each encounter. For taking a girl outside the brothel the client pays up to Rs.2000/-.The privilege of going out with the client is given only to trustworthy girls who have been in the brothel for about two years, have developed liking for this profession and have proved loyalty to Gharwali or manager of the brothel. In the old age if the CSW wants she can work in the brothel as cook, washer woman and do petty jobs for which she is paid salary.

Nearly 16 years ago safe sex was not practiced in brothels. After two years of my brothel life I became pregnant and I preferred to continue with my pregnancy. Most of the girls in such situations would prefer to abort the baby. However, a baby girl was born to me and I fed the baby for two months and in accordance with the customs of the brothel, after two months the baby is sent out to be brought up elsewhere at the cost of brothel owner. However every month the baby is brought to the mother for few hours. I still have that child with me. After coming back from Mumbai I married a boy who now works as a painter. After six years of married life a girl child was born to me.

My health did not cooperate with me and ultimately it was found that I am HIV positive. Knowing this fact my husband cried and felt very bad. But now he is fine with me and he knows about my past life.

It is now eight years that I have come back from Mumbai. The Gharwali gave me Rs.10, 000/- on leaving Mumbai. One person accompanied me and left me on the border of Nepal from where I came back home on my own.

The contact with NGO ETSCN has been much fruitful. I am given nutrition help in the form of Rs.300/- per month, two goats are given to me, I have received training in entrepreneurship development and periodical counseling.  Thank you!





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Success Studies (Full Maya)

May 24, 2022 /0 Comments/in /by

Success Studies

Rescue and rehab

Advocacy and legal support to traffic.

Fulmaya Bholan is 18 years old married teens from Handikhola VDC. She was living with her husband and other family members. Husband is working as cleaner in truck. She has not been in good relationship with husband, time to time they used to quarrel each other and the other side family economic condition was very poor. She was looking for way out for earnings. Days were passing, one day a neighbor Sunita Moktan came to her and started to inspire her for foreign job. Sunita told she could arrange a good job in a home in India for monthly 3500.00 IC. Fulmaya felt good at this and an opportunity for improving her status so she agreed for the plan to go to India for job. She was taken to India via Sunayuli land boarder of Nepal.

Later on husband Ram Bahadur and her family members with other neighbors discovered that Fulmaya is away without any prior plan, consultation and permission from family. Neither Sunita Moktan (broker) made any consult to family members and asks their permission for her to take in jobs in India, but while the Fulmaya was not in village. Members of community peer watch group(CPWG organized by ETSC) became active to find out the clue for this, because obviously this was the case that could be trafficking. CPWG members Sunita Adhakari and her fellow group member made an effort to search the cause of her missing and mobilize communities. The local communities suspected and discovered that the local broker Sunita Moktan was doing such kind of activities and this particular was the fourth case. Local communities approached to District Police Office, Makwanpur with their application to protect Fulmaya Bholan who is being trafficked. ETSC and network members’ organization of Makwanpur continuously labored for follow-up the case to help local communities, government, local agencies, district police and other justice provider stakeholder office. At last with the one month of labor the accused person Sunita Moktan has brought back Full Maya from Delhi. That time Sunita Moktan was living in the village, she brought her back through her contact in Delhi. After her arrival she has not declared her state of being in India openly. Her husband and family have not welcomed her back to the family till the day.  Now she is under care of ETSC- Nepal. ETSCN is planning to provide livelihood skill. Thank you.

Trafficking and Foreign Employment:

”My name is Aaitee maya Thing from Churiyamai VDC-8, Shikherpani. We had no enough land to live. When my husband married another women, Our economic condition of family become difficult and again my husband and his younger wife left the family and gone away.” This has made even more difficult to feed the children and maintain family for Aaitee Maya. Now she has to take responsibility for 3 sons and one daughters and herself. Aaitee Maya easily came to contact with broker who envisioned her beautiful dream of earning money and living a new and a good life while working in foreign land. The agent offered free visa and help to make a passport in district office. She was taken Kuwait via India. ” When I reached to the place of work, I started the work from early morning 4.00 AM to late night 12: PM. My daily course was washing clothes cleaning house, kitchen work, serving food and beverage, attending rooms of family member for their assistance. The family members used to keep bell to call me. It was always impossible to attend immediately as per needs of family members. Continuously I was scolded harshly for not attendance and working in time and proper standard. This every things was very different then my thought about foreign work and life over there.” I thought I will loss my mind and physical life. If I had to go like this, And It come very difficult for me to be kept in work in that house. ”I asked money but the house owner was not paying me since 3 months. ”I thought that they will not give my money instead hard work which I was doing. I decided to leave the home. Neither, I never before thought one could work this much hour continuously nor I ever used to work this much in Nepal. My life was worse then a slave in Kuwait ” when I left the home I could not get even single penny”. However she managed to came to the center (Center: a place where broker brings Nepali women and from there Kuwait house owner takes Nepali women as he likes some one.) from where she was taken to work. There at centers agents advised her again to go to Saudi Arabia as home maiden but she strongly refused to join any work but to go back to Nepal. At that center she meet many other Nepali women’s, some of them were excepting to go other place to join work again after being exploitive from their first one work provider. The broker used to contact new house owner for these women. I’m elderly women so my house owner easily let me go away from home. But many young Nepali women who join work as home maid are not being able to leave the home because of their usefulness for work strength and sex. I’ve meet a young lady who had conceived a baby and house owner forcedly took her to this venue from where she was taken. Many young Nepali women are being used by many house owners when one house owner used some one for the time and again if he doesn’t like in any manner he takes her to that center. And again the broker sells her to other house owner for work. Many women are facing such situation though they don’t want to come back with out sum of money. The Nepali brokers who are working in over there they tend not to let young women go back to Nepal easily. They make every effort to women to join another home again. ”I did not wanted to join any work there how much they try to assume me about good may happen in next job” I could sent one letter to my neighbor sister through one women who was shortly returned to Nepal. With the assistance of my neighbor luckily I’m able to come back to home.” She says because of my ignorant about the foreign employment and the lack of profession here in Nepal, I put in such trafficked situation. Now, days I used to tell other Nepali women not to go aboard without knowing properly about it and it is not a job for ordinary Nepali women. These days I’m cutting wood and selling it for resolving the problem of hands to mouth. I don’t know to pay back 70,000 rupees. It seems there is no way for me again.”

 

What you do with this everything that you made me tell. What is going on with your organization would you do something to help me in such situation?





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Case Studies 1

May 24, 2022 /0 Comments/in /by

Case studies:

Trafficking

Maya (name changed)- victim of Human Trafficking- age 25 years from Basamadi

I live in Basamadi and have never been to school. Now I am 25 years old. I come from a very poor family of three sisters and three brothers. My responsibility was to cut grass for the animals. I often got beatings for bringing home less grass. From childhood I liked smoking cigarettes. I was sent to my aunt’s house which was a turning point in my life from good to bad. I developed friendship with one boy who one day gave me a cigarette to smoke. The cigarette may have had a drug which had a stupefying effect. Before I could realize what had happened, I landed in Mumbai in a brothel. In a well planned manner the boy took me there. I was given alcohol to drink; I slept well in the night. When I woke up in the morning I enquired about the boy who brought me there. People in the brothel told me that the boy had gone to search for a room to rent. Waiting for the boy, I restlessly passed three days and on my repeated enquiries they finally told me that the boy has gone selling me there for Rs.35,000/-. I was 12 years old when this storm came in my life, I cried and cried. I was asked to take bath, new clothes were given to me and ritual make up was done for me. Now I was ready for the business. I stayed in the brothel for 4 years. One day, one boy came to the brothel and he managed to help me escape from the brothel. He managed to engage me in the embroidery work.

One day I went out to buy vegetables in the market where I was identified and picked up by the police. During that time there was a movement initiated by police to rescue people like me from the brothels. I was taken to the Ashram by the police where there were about 250 girls rescued like me. We stayed here for nearly nine months. Thereafter, we were sent back to Nepal by Air and our blood was tested on arrival in Nepal. Thirteen years have passed when I got married. At that time I was HIV positive. Knowing all these facts my husband married me. When I came from India, I had enough money and my husband was kind to me and used to love me. Over a period of time, he stopped loving me. I had bought a piece of land and built a small house. One day my husband came home and in a fit of anger he cut my thumb. My thumb developed gangrene and doctors operated upon it and amputated my thumb. I sold my house for this treatment. My husband fell in love with another girl and has married her. Now I live in a small hut.

The NGO ETSCN helped me and consoled me. I am appreciative for their concern. Thank you.





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